In need of advice to give to a friend - who would you choose? the man or the woman for a relationship?

Sorry to ask, but i have ran out of advice for my friend.





The sitiation is this.





Girl (1) had a 6 year fling with girl (2) - they were best friends and never been with other women before. They lived with eachother and did everything u usually do in a relationship. It was niver oficial as girl (1) could not accept a relationship with another woman





Girl (1) has now moved in with a Boyfriend last week. He has been on the scene for years.





He banned the girls from seeing eachother.After 6 months,the girls met up again last week.





Girl 1 does not share a bed with her boyfriend and only slept together once in 8 months.





The girls have slept together since girl 1 and the boyfriend have been going out, but not since they re-united last week after the 6 month period.





Nobody knows about the woman and are hoping





do you think she really likes the man who she moved in with, or does she like the woman?





she seems happy to settle with the man but may like the girl too???In need of advice to give to a friend - who would you choose? the man or the woman for a relationship?
Your friend is one confused individual. It sounds like she wants a man because that feels normal, but she is sexually and emotionally attached to the woman. Tell her to grow some balls and open the closet door.In need of advice to give to a friend - who would you choose? the man or the woman for a relationship?
It sounds like you may be girl 2 in this story, I think she is getting her rocks of with both.
I think she is having a problem accepting her sexuality. Maybe she is trying to do ';the right thing'; by being with the boyfriend but I think she is really a lesbian and the right thing for her to do is stay with the girlfriend.
Girl 1 is in serious denial of her gayness and should not be ashamed of it. It's unfair to the guy in the relationship and in turn unfair to not being true to herself. She needs to quite worrying about everybody else and do what she feels is right for her.
weird that 2 girls in the same family are gay..


but you need to be who you are, not who your family thinks you should be.





girl needs to make up her mind and either stick with the guy or the girl. she needs to do what SHE wants, not what she thinks her family will accept. it sounds like she's happier with the girl, but wants the guy as a cover.





i'd suggest she do some deep soul searching and do what SHE wants, but she can't keep playing both sides of the fence.. 2 years or 6 years: it's a long time to be doing both.





good luck
she has to do whatever is best for her %26amp; her alone sounds like she may really be more into the girl though but again she has to make a decision she can live with :)d
she obviously has no idea what she wants. it sounds as though she's just stringing them both along until she makes up her mind!
The answers is 27....I suck at word problems.
Unfortunately, she likes the girl better.
I think she's with the man for appearances only. She may feel that's the right thing to do. However, I think she'd rather be with the other woman. Maybe she hasn't come to terms yet with her sexual preference.
It doesn't seem to me she likes the man all that well, if she has only slept with him ONCE sense living with him for 8 months!!





There isn't enough to judge if she likes the girl more or not. I'm sure she cares to keep a friendship though.





I bet Bi sexuals have a really hard time dealing in relationships!! Can't make up their minds! And bet there's lots of drama!!
girl 1 hasn't slept with her boyfriend in 8 months????? Friend asking is being taken for a fool! You cannot know any of these facts are true unless you lived with all parties yourself, therefore it's all suffisition and conjecture! leave them all be to sort themselves out. I'm female and personally have always fancied males! there is simply NOTHING any woman could do for me and she certainly couldn't make me feel the way a man can! Sorry, it's my own opinion and you don't have to like it. Men just KNOW what pleases a woman!!!!! AND how to do it!
I think girl (1) is lying about not having a physical relationship with the guy and wants her cake and eat it too as they say.
sorry, I do not answer anything that involves homosexuality.





it's just too unfamiliar to me and the culture i was raised in.





it's fine if that's your thing but don't expect us older generation to get used to it overnight.

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