Needing some advice for a single woman?

I have good qualities nice, funny, romantic, loyal, hey I'll even watch sports (Go Dodger, Lakers, UCLA) -lol-





Why are guys (even nice ones) only looking to hook-up with you and nothing more? Is it okay to feel like a loser if you've never had a boyfriend and your almost 30? Is it okay to feel sad %26amp; lonely and not believe ( maybe lose hope) when people tell ';you someday day you'll find someone';? Is it okay for me to vent my feelings?Needing some advice for a single woman?
Yes, it is OK to vent your feelings! It would only make things worse to bottle it up. As for, why do all guys only want to hook up? Several reasons! For the last 10-20 years or so, this has been the acceptable norm for both men and women. Go out to the bar, find a guy or gal, hook up, exchange info and become friends with benefits. As for the guy, as long as he can get it this way, he will continue to do it. As for the women, when you do get ready to settle down, it's hard to find a good MAN using these techniques. My best pieces of advice are:


#1. DON'T LET YOURSELF PLAY THIS GAME ANY LONGER! SET HIGHER STANDARDS FOR YOURSELF AND DEMAND THE RESPECT THAT YOU DESERVE FROM MEN!


#2. LOOK FOR YOUR MEN IN DIFFERENT GENRA. STOP LOOKING AT THE BARS AND PARTIES! START LOOKING IN MORE HOLESOME PLACES. CHURCH, WORK, EXTRA AVTIVITY FUNCTIONS, FRIENDS AND DATING SERVICES. A BAR/PARTY MANHUNT IS FOR SHORT TERM RELATIONSHIPS. YOU NEED TO FIGURE OUT WHAT TYPE OFA GUY YOU WANT, (HONEST,RELIGOUS, GOOD FATHER FIGURE, FINANCIALY SECURE) AND START LOOKING FOR HIM IN THE AREAS THAT THOSE MEN HANG OUT.


Hope this helps.Needing some advice for a single woman?
sometimes you have to be patient when it comes to relationships like they say there is a soulmate for everyone in this world you just have to weed out the bad seeds to get to the good fruit
Society puts pressure on people especially women to be married by 30. Fight the urge to get down though when you hear that phrase ';You'll find someone';...





Maybe you are looking in the wrong places for men. Be yourself and don't try so hard. Keep your head up. If I can find someone, you can too. Trust me!
You'll find your Mr. Right.


But he's not going to fall from the sky...You need to get out and find him.


Good~Luck!
it's not okay to put yourself out like that over the internet but i can see why you are doing it because the men in your town are probably assholes like they are in my town. but you shouldn't limit yourself to the internet try going out somewhere else like out of town. those type of relationships are fun and simple.
Everything will work out, I am in the same boat in many ways.....but don't lose hope....happiness you'll find.