What advice would you give to an abused woman that was told there wasn't any room in any program for her?

It takes alot for a woman in that situation to ask for help, just getting away is hard enough. Then when you get to that point and go through all the red tape to get help only to find out that there is none available........what do you do? go home? stay on the street?What advice would you give to an abused woman that was told there wasn't any room in any program for her?
As someone who works with DV victims (and survived being one, too) I am so sorry for the way you were treated, that is shameful. There should always be safe places to go. I would also suggest a church group; most do not require you to be a member of their congregation: Catholic Charities and Lutheran Services for example. Also contact the Department of Human Services or Community Services Board for the county in which you live and ask for their assistance; even if there truly isn't room in a shelter they can assist you in finding another one in a neighboring city or another program. As a last resort you can also contact the police/victim assistance. They can help ensure your safety and help you to connect with people who can help you. You don't have to stay on the street OR go home. Good luck!What advice would you give to an abused woman that was told there wasn't any room in any program for her?
You are welcome. Good luck to you and feel free to message me at: katebarbee if you need anything else.

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I hope children aren't involved, but if they are, all the more reason to NEVER go back. Abusers DON'T CHANGE.





Keep looking for help, Churches definitely. Keep pushing. She's co-dependent so it won't be in her nature to leave or push for help when it's difficult. That's the first thing that needs to change. That's actually the enemy she's fighting.





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Jesus ain't gonna do squat to put a roof over this woman's head..leave it in Jesus' hands....where was Jesus when her man was beating the tar out of her? She needs to go to a family member or friend, in these situations, no matter how embarrasing, it is important to find strength in those around you.... Jesus... he's not there, better to make a wish upon a pickle jar.
Contact Churches, friends, co-workers, or family. It is important to reach out for help. This is not a time to be ';proud';. Worst case, try to bide your time if possible. Find a way to save money and search for shelters in another area. There is no rule saying you have to live in an area to use their shelters. There is always a way out, but unfortunately it is not easy to find that way sometimes.





Also, the next time he lays a hand on her, she should report it, file charges and have him prosecuted. While he is in jail, get a restraining order and use that time to try to find another place to live. Legal Aid may be able to help. No one has a right to hit a woman.
There are all kinds of resources available to battered women. Contact churches and she might even need to contact a shelter in another community. But she should stay away from her abuser. God help her.
It is know for fact that Jesus Christ will heal her if she accepts him. There is no other way to fully recover. After she does Jesus Christ will take control of the situation.
I would find a church group.





Lutheran family services ministries came to the aid of a friend of mine and helped her tread water until a spot opened up in a program.
sucks to be you
its a very difficult time for the woman, she should keep looking or turn to a friend or family member that she trusts, one thing she shouldnt be is alone. i would tell her that, or take her in myself if i had to, i have no tolerance for abuse
She may have to pack up and move to a place where there is room for her. It is doable
ask family..look for chartiable groups....salvation army..redcross..good luck....