I NEED ADVICE!Should I still seek friendship with a married women for over 15 years?

A women who i have known since highschool keeps entering my life. Working at my highschool job,writing me when i was out of state,moving to the same apartment complex,asking me to help her move in her college dorm,and accepting a pair of sexy shoes i bought(brown leather Hokus Pokus wedge heels when we went to lunch.) Also,when we were out of highschool she said we were freinds,but, she allowed me to massage her feet. I must add again...she's married now,but this past summer, I seen her wearing the shoes i bought her 4 years ago(barely fitting !) should i be happy?I NEED ADVICE!Should I still seek friendship with a married women for over 15 years?
We all know guys can't be 'just friends' with girls we're attracted to. So its one of 3:





1.) Walk away from the friendship. You won't be able to *truly* walk away and close the door until you explain your feelings to her and why you are doing what you're doing, so you need to talk it out in this scenario or you'll end back up in the same position you started in.


2.) Continue friendship and push for the end game and the boat load of drama that will come along with that (i.e. sex, divorce, people shooting other people, etc.).


3.) Continue with the friendship and continually not act on your deep-seated emotions and wake up 80 years old one day saying 'why didn't I ever really take action?'





I'd say 1 or 2 is the way to go depending on you and your love interests' mutual feelings and moral reasoning. However, the first and probably most important step is being honest with yourself that you're probably interested in her as more than just a friend (and vice versa).I NEED ADVICE!Should I still seek friendship with a married women for over 15 years?
if u like her fine- but she's taken. if u try to cheat with her, this could be the biggest mess of ur life. yeah, you can be happy, but dont do anything stupid.
i think that if you try to have a friendship with her she'll just want to hook up with you again. The best thing you can do now is to just say to her that you're not interested because she's married.